Skola Posted September 7, 2013 Report Share Posted September 7, 2013 Never understood why anyone would get a joint account could say the same about marriage tbh once you get tied up in that legal system with someone 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lenny Posted September 7, 2013 Report Share Posted September 7, 2013 Never understood why anyone would get a joint account ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lens Posted September 7, 2013 Report Share Posted September 7, 2013 heard of couples who use them purely to pay their bills. house bills come out of joint a/c, and they pay standing orders into the joint a/c from their own to cover said bills. think I'd prefer this to my chick every month giving me half the rent, although a standing order could technically be set up from her to me for this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yoshie Posted September 7, 2013 Report Share Posted September 7, 2013 Never understood why anyone would get a joint account ! Cosign. Guys a fool, would never pay for a first date, or any unless it's the wife. Even then it's rare. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zlastboss Posted September 7, 2013 Report Share Posted September 7, 2013 lol @ both these people and people wonder why they cant find a partner 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Woodpecker Posted September 7, 2013 Report Share Posted September 7, 2013 Yeah so Guys a muppet Walking back to charring x fromm leicester sq and sucks her blackberry What a cringe Obviously trry stunt on it and didn't have the waffle to complete the combo Bozo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sole Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 Yh I hear all the she should have got the next round talk but come on you would just take the L and never contact the bitch again not turn into 16year old waste man and steal her phone ffs / Also pmsl at tones guy not having his own bank account but yh obviously a bitch made probably does all the cooking and cleaning as well. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TF S4DK Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 Never understood why anyone would get a joint account ! heard of couples who use them purely to pay their bills. house bills come out of joint a/c, and they pay standing orders into the joint a/c from their own to cover said bills. think I'd prefer this to my chick every month giving me half the rent, although a standing order could technically be set up from her to me for this. Smart men, only put half their wage into the joint account, and claim its the full... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dom dom bullets Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 She'd have to be one dumb bitch to believe it's the full salary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R1. Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 Unless ur earning the big boy $ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 The guy has to be dumb for having a joint account in the first place 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TF S4DK Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 She'd have to be one dumb bitch to believe it's the full salary Chicks don't know lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TF S4DK Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 The guy has to be dumb for having a joint account in the first place Dunno about dumb, cos in reality you'd do it normally for a home together and/or marriage. Once your at that stage there has to be a certain trust and you've already made a big commitment. House - not being paid for 25-35 years. Marriage - you agreed to life with her, till death do us part and all that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 Cuz I am the bread winner I run the household Having a joint account will give her ideas above her station See how that women is already behaving towards Toney's uncle Pre nup along with no joint account is at top of the list when it comes to marriage 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TF S4DK Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 Understand I fully agree with you but I see these situation in reality... If your a man getting/needing to get a mortgage with a chick and she's working, clearly your not the breadwinner. My chick is not on my paperwork, she couldbe there, she could not be there, my houses clockwork runs exactly the same, so this joint account discussion is a non-starter but for other guys that have to go that route, the bank will insist. My advice to them is have your wages go into your current account and then a percentage of it shuffle over same day to the joint. If she notices it not your actually company paying your money in tell her my work was being long about changing it over and said my money might get processed wrong and we don't want that babe. If you get married and leave the bill management to your wife, then your own laziness is why your need a joint account in the first place. Again I pay all my bills myself, I did it today its simple but the older generation ain't technology savvy, somedont even know what direct debit are. I know men that couldn't tell you how much their Sky bill is, yet they pay it every month. They earn themoney but the budgeting and mangement is left to their wife. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 That's a mistake already Wanting to get a mortgage with a woman in the first place(Only moving into a chick's house is worse) Why would the bank insist? Doing things 50/50 makes you lose self value Your woman needs to fear your presence (not physically but mentally) 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TF S4DK Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 Lots of people make the mistake tho, a lot with good intentions tho. Women by nature like you to move out of YOUR home tbh, they aint stupid... When you get a mortgage, you get a bank account, they will try their hardest to get you to move your money to that bank/account. If you get a mortgage with your girl, that account by default will be joint. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkman Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 That's a mistake already Wanting to get a mortgage with a woman in the first place(Only moving into a chick's house is worse) Why would the bank insist? Doing things 50/50 makes you lose self value Your woman needs to fear your presence (not physically but mentally) Porchy when you get married and move into a house with your partner are you saying will you pay the full deposit/mortgage payments? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 Lots of people make the mistake tho, a lot with good intentions tho. Women by nature like you to move out of YOUR home tbh, they aint stupid... When you get a mortgage, you get a bank account, they will try their hardest to get you to move your money to that bank/account. If you get a mortgage with your girl, that account by default will be joint. Can you see yourself falling into that trap? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 That's a mistake already Wanting to get a mortgage with a woman in the first place(Only moving into a chick's house is worse) Why would the bank insist? Doing things 50/50 makes you lose self value Your woman needs to fear your presence (not physically but mentally) Porchy when you get married and move into a house with your partner are you saying will you pay the full deposit/mortgage payments? Yeah of course Isn't that the norm? A wife's role is to be maternal Darkman it's my name on everything (sole owner) This way if things goes wrong she walks out the same way she walked in With nothing 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lens Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 it will be her living in my house. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkman Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 I That's a mistake alreadyWanting to get a mortgage with a woman in the first place(Only moving into a chick's house is worse)Why would the bank insist?Doing things 50/50 makes you lose self valueYour woman needs to fear your presence (not physically but mentally) Porchy when you get married and move into a house with your partner are you saying will you pay the full deposit/mortgage payments? Yeah of courseIsn't that the norm?A wife's role is to be maternalDarkman it's my name on everything (sole owner)This way if things goes wrong she walks out the same way she walked inWith nothing The norm? No Ideal? Yes When kids and other things comes into the equation though a larger place may be required and combining your income will only increase your buying/borrowing power. House prices have risen over the years and will continue to do so it will be much harder getting a mortgage by yourself. I reckon you'll need at least 60k deposit for a decent place which is a huge amount. Split between 2 people this is not too bad. I'm assuming you're not already a homeowner? I'm not saying I will get a joint mortgage but in reality it often makes financial sense Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YFSD Posted September 10, 2013 Report Share Posted September 10, 2013 A lot of fairytale talk in here IMO 7 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O Fenomeno Posted September 10, 2013 Report Share Posted September 10, 2013 Darkman I am thinking long term. I rather work hard and be the sole provider I own a place in Canning Town which I am about to sell by the end of this year so yes I am a homeowner already I am planning to live on mainland Europe / What man is stupid enough to have share ownership of the family home Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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What woman is stupid enough to move into a marital home without her name on it?
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A lot of fairytale talk in here IMO
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I am thinking long term. I rather work hard and be the sole provider
I own a place in Canning Town which I am about to sell by the end of this year so yes I am a homeowner already
I am planning to live on mainland Europe
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What man is stupid enough to have share ownership of the family home
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