Living apart from your children

[yhfam]

12 hours ago, Trap God said:

Question for fathers

How do you feel knowing a  guy is stealing your child's Capri Suns from your BMs cupboard 

 

[SLEAZE BALL]

This is not the topic for your dead jokes still

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Toney I can't even click play on that vid

Can't do it at orrr

[Heero Yuy]

10 hours ago, O Fenomeno said:

Who breeds a bike tho? 

 

Some different type of foolishness.

 

 

these topics definitely aren't for you either

 

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When my boys ex got married she tried tell him their daughter was taking her husbands last name.

[JOHN DOE]

7 minutes ago, Heero Yuy said:

 

 

these topics definitely aren't for you either

 

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When my boys ex got married she tried tell him their daughter was taking her husbands last name.

SHE DEY CRAZE 

[Drift]

Mad

When a woman stops rating you that's IT. 

[Badman]

2 hours ago, Trap God said:

Toney I can't even click play on that vid

Can't do it at orrr

The description alone had man rattled

[QPR Dee]

1 hour ago, Heero Yuy said:

 

 

these topics definitely aren't for you either

 

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When my boys ex got married she tried tell him their daughter was taking her husbands last name.

LOL I imagine once she realised she can't change it without his consent she chilled.

 

[Vtec]

15 hours ago, Trap God said:

Question for fathers

How do you know your child is safe when there's another man in the house with your child Russell Wilsoning?

Alot depends on the communication setup you have with your ex partner.. if sour, she isn't going to tell you anything and you find out the hard way and that's just long

You can either be that controlling BF whos c*ck blocking his BM from getting another man, (creeping past her house every night checking for cars pulled up) (occassionaly fuckin her to try control). (though she will still be bangin whoever, just on the DL)

Or you can be man about it, open discussion about who she has around, eg introduce the guy so you both square on things and no funny shit and understandings set in place. (plus keep a bat on standby to his shatter knees, should he fuck up around your child)

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What about guys yourselves relationship/moving in with a chick who has a child herself. What type of engagement with her child's father would you expect? knowing you're gonna be around his kid more than him? you gonna tolerate a controlling BF mean muggin you, trying to set pace for you as a grown man in your own right?

What about fathers with kids and new woman around your kid? vice versa?

[TTK]

1 hour ago, Heero Yuy said:

 

When my boys ex got married she tried tell him their daughter was taking her husbands last name.

Absolute rage

[dayomesaydayo]

Sorry for all you man going through it.

Me personally i would never involve myself in something like this. 

For me family is two parents, man and woman,and kids.All living in the same house.  

 

[Seydou]

1 hour ago, JOHN DOE said:

SHE DEY CRAZE 

Rahtid 

@Heero Yuy is he that same guy you mentioned a while getting mugged off by his girl.

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one of my boys got into a German ting. Had a kid with her, then things went left. 

The battle he had to go through to stop her from taking that child back to Germany. 

 

 

[Vtec]

5 minutes ago, dayomesaydayo said:

Sorry for all you man going through it.

Me personally i would never involve myself in something like this. 

For me family is two parents, man and woman,and kids.All living in the same house.  

 

Most think this too. Life don't always go that way.

[Heero Yuy]

4 minutes ago, Seydou said:

Rahtid 

@Heero Yuy is he that same guy you mentioned a while getting mugged off by his girl.

 

 

 

Nah lol, the name change never happened, she just tried it dassorrr.

 

[Vtec]

13 minutes ago, Seydou said:

Rahtid 

one of my boys got into a German ting. Had a kid with her, then things went left. 

The battle he had to go through to stop her from taking that child back to Germany.

 

Friends uncle, his ex wife. Took the kid to live in the US out of spite aged 8-9

Reached age of 13-14. Backfired for her, kid now lives with pops in the uk, shuns mum hard for what she did.

[JOHN DOE]

* mum bro 

[Vtec]

edited, thanks for your input.

[dayomesaydayo]

10 minutes ago, Vtec said:

Most think this too. Life don't always go that way.

I agree but this is why you should be careful with who you chose to "set up shop" with.

 mandem dont help themselves.

Breeding bikes,getting into relationships with women from different cultures etc.

 

[Seydou]

Lol

Life is never that sweet bro, even when you plan shit to a perfection.

You can never plan external factors which what comes into play at times.

[Lens]

1 hour ago, dayomesaydayo said:

Sorry for all you man going through it.

Me personally i would never involve myself in something like this. 

For me family is two parents, man and woman,and kids.All living in the same house.  

 

Never involve Yourself? So what,  You stop seeing Your kids if it no longer suits Your perfect plan? 

Or You fritzl Your bm when You get the hint she's leaving? 

Lol @ thinking You're the  guy with the perfect plan 100% success rate

[Lens]

@ V Tec,if I wasn't serious and she mentioned me meeting the babyfather I'd probably make my exit then

If I was, I'd say it's for them 2 to decide as parents if I need to meet the babyfather but I don't see much need for any interaction beyond meeting him once.

Scared to risk my kids around a woman but as I said earlier in the thread, they shouldn't be too affected if they met one then we broke up

[The King]

I miss my kids when I'm at work

Don't know how I'd cope if they didn't live with me

 

[Wavant]

God bless my life please. 

Surname changes, other men. I’m rattled. 

[Funkyskanker]

7 hours ago, Heero Yuy said:

 

 

these topics definitely aren't for you either

 

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When my boys ex got married she tried tell him their daughter was taking her husbands last name.

 

who what where

[dayomesaydayo]

3 hours ago, Lens said:

Never involve Yourself? So what,  You stop seeing Your kids if it no longer suits Your perfect plan? 

Or You fritzl Your bm when You get the hint she's leaving? 

Lol @ thinking You're the  guy with the perfect plan 100% success rate

I can only speak for myself but.

The only time i am getting  a girl  pregnant is if i am married to her and in the  background i am from divorce is frowned upon .

I honestly cant see myself in a situation like this.

[dayomesaydayo]

4 hours ago, Seydou said:

Lol

Life is never that sweet bro, even when you plan shit to a perfection.

You can never plan external factors which what comes into play at times.

Life aint simple bro but one thing someone  told  me  a while back which has stuck with me is  a smart person learns from his or her mistakes but a wise person learns from other peoples mistakes.

A lot of people dont do either imo.