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Kind of a long read but advice would be niceI have known this girl for a2 years or so. I have been told I act funny around her when I first met her and some people said I fancied her I denied it because I didn't want to seem like a sprung guy so I played it cool and picked on her when I was with my boys talked about her height(she is 4ft 11) and other little things.When they wasn't around we would talk for hours and hours she would say you treat me badly. I was like uh oh I blew it. From this point onwards I treated her real niceAnyways one day in class I was a bit angry and I said what you keep looking at me, she goes you because I think your sexy like wtf again I behaved like a cuntShe tells me one day she needs to tell me something only to tell me that her friend wants to go out with me I was happy when she told me she needed to tell me suttin then she said her friend. I felt like saying but I want yooou I just kept it movingThe other day I was talking about my date to her on msn and she goes you are dating I was like yeah she then logged off and about 2 hours later she logged back on and I said what happened earlier she goes well I wouldnt like to get you in trouble with your girl would I. I told her she was just another girlat this point I was under the impression she was dissapointed and maybe felt dissapointed I had chosen someoneI talked to her the next day she said there is a party on Friday and I should come I said cool but she has a fracture on her back and she doesn't know if she will go. I said I wont go if you dont come with me she says you treat me really well and the conversation died as I didn't know what to type after that.I have been thinking about her alot since and I liked her from day but I dont want to kill our friendship and I dont think I can handle rejection from her.What should I do go for the kill or just move on?I know it might seem easy but it isn't I don't know if I can risk it and look like a c*nt in the end. It isnt like asking a girl out its about 10times worse tbh. Also I she kind of thinks im a bad guy because of the type of sh*t im involved in and doesn't think its wiseoff to sleep the more advice the merrier

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If you actually CANNOT handle rejection from her then obvious don't try it. But live to regret the things you do, not the things you don't.Man up and f*ck*ng do it. If it goes well you'll feel on top of the world. If it doesn't, well f*ck it. If you really wanna take the easiest option, go to the party, get drunk, try to kiss her and if you fail you can blame it on the booze. Boom bam,

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PT has powers, so you should believe him.Go for it. Tell how you feel and take it from there. Could be something really special. Plus you're already friends. You have a good basis for a solid relationship.Yes, I am a romantic.

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Prime example of there being no platonic relationshippppsssAnyway, move in obviouslyWhat friendship you have is BASED on the fact you both fancy eachother, so go tru fam

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Prime example of there being no platonic relationshippppsssAnyway, move in obviouslyWhat friendship you have is BASED on the fact you both fancy eachother, so go tru fam
nah, imo its a prime example of confusing prolonged mutual ego massaging for friendship
tbh you aint really friendscos you both like each other (shes bait)
this girl knowsThe Infamous you have more to lose by NOT going thru cos you know the truth is the second some nxt guy starts banging it you'll be feeling like a bitch
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Just move in. This is your chance to get with her. Its bait she likes you and you know it..and its bait you like her and she knows it.I think she knows it ever since you started picking on her. The bait school kid sh*t. Picking on a girl you like to distract that attention and look big in front of her with ur friends around.But c/s to whoever sed 'f*ck a friendsip'. I've made that mistake of letting a friendship come in the way of me being with someone i really liked.But get in there before its too late, and if out of the blue she does reject you...PLS DONT DO A DARNELL AND CALL HER AN UGLY BITCH.

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oh Lord.. you are telling me you cant see that she likes you??? its like kindergarten where you throw mud at the girl you like.. think about it this way.. would you rather continue your sham of a friendship & always wonder what could have happened... OR would you rather man up & you never know it could be the best move whether good or bad outcome from her

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oh Lord.. you are telling me you cant see that she likes you??? its like kindergarten where you throw mud at the girl you like.. think about it this way.. would you rather continue your sham of a friendship & always wonder what could have happened... OR would you rather man up & you never know it could be the best move whether good or bad outcome from her
What missBee said. ^^^
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tbh you aint really friendscos you both like each other (shes bait)and since you know that an you know that you get on well then why noti doubt she'll reject you, at most she'll probably try and act coy at the begining but thats about itcarpe diem man
c/sfrom when the pair of you are feeling each other you ain't friends so moving to her ain't gonna alter your 'friendship'.
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I cannot believe what I am reading. :|This isn't even a friendship, there's no such thing between a man and a woman. This is all based and built on an attraction between the two of you. HOWTHEF*CKISTHATFRIENDSHIP!You both have ulterior motives yet are waiting on each other to say something.Friendship my bloodclaat footbottom ah wah di blouse an skirt TUPP YA FOOLISHNESS BWAAI! *Kiss My Teet* :D

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