Do you lot agree with this kind of parenting

[Aquaman]

LOL I never got beat by a grown man

I think the beats are justified he explained why the boy was wrong

tbh you can't say bad parenting because that was punishment he might save teaching educating the boy for a next vid

[time_bomb]

i very rarely smacked my daughter, most of the time shouting or an angry face would do the job, her mum smacks her a bit more than me, my daughter has grown up to be a very respectful and polite little girl.

I guess with a boy a bit more may be needed, but generally i think a shout and a smack should scare them enough, u gotto just establish the authority from early.

[Captain Planet]

There are rights and wrongs in this vid imo

The explanation of what was done wrong is spot on imo, my Mother did this

The hair and eyebrow cutting as a punishment can be justified by the parent, bbecause it will remain in the childs memory as to know that if you act like a clown you will appear as one.

But at the same time I personally would avoid such punishments because your child is also a representative of you in character and visually hence i would find it hard to do that, but as a one of to really hit home something similar could be deployed.

The licks, personally if you're going to use a belt I again would use my Mums system where she would list the offences and assign a certain number to them so it's not just indiscriminate beating, so lets say you get 10 for swearing at your teacher.

That military shit I don't condone in the manner he applied it, I'd rather an approach as MK described where he was made to do the knees and broom balance thing, that will build discipline and character without putting a young fragile body at risk.

Lastly the documentation and uploading of the whole thing I felt unnecessary.

However...

This kid could either grow up really resenting his father or really respecting him, depending on how their relationship is outside of this video, if it's a strained relationship where the kid can't be free with his dad and enjoy his company without fear of "stepping out of line" then the former would be the most likely scenario but we don;t know so...

[Guest28]

All getting beats taught me to do was become a better liar.

This is also true!

loool u know thats true init

aint gonna lie ill still b beat my kids

[Guest M12 Part 2]

That military shit I don't condone in the manner he applied it, I'd rather an approach as MK described where he was made to do the knees and broom balance thing, that will build discipline and character without putting a young fragile body at risk.

Lastly the documentation and uploading of the whole thing I felt unnecessary.

This is one thing i really dont understand. Hitting a fleshy part of the body like a kids arse with the leather part of a belt cannot do any long term harm. No matter how hard you swing the belt.

Holding your arms above your head for long periods of time or balancing on one leg and a lot of the punishments ive heard in particular from nigerian children are far more dangerous. you can develop strains and other problems with your muscles long term doing things like that.

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reminds me one of my nigerian bredrins used to say his strength came from having to face the wall and hold his schoolbag above his head when he was bad.

[Michel Kane]

A child's body round that age is much more supple/agile.

Less susceptible to strains & whatnot.

[Esquilax]

That military shit I don't condone in the manner he applied it, I'd rather an approach as MK described where he was made to do the knees and broom balance thing, that will build discipline and character without putting a young fragile body at risk.

Lastly the documentation and uploading of the whole thing I felt unnecessary.

This is one thing i really dont understand. Hitting a fleshy part of the body like a kids arse with the leather part of a belt cannot do any long term harm. No matter how hard you swing the belt.

What do you mean by this?

[Captain Planet]

TBH Esq

Ur presence in these threads is always an attempt at dismissing a long held cultural practise/belief which you regard to be wrong but you have limited experience/understanding of.

[Wavant]

Those Nigerian PoW/stress positions are hilarious.

The parents taunt them as they do it

[YFSD]

Muscle wise it's not so bad but structure wise it's worse.

Bones in your feet aren't at their strongest until early 20's I read somewhere, it's not healthy to have bad pressure on your joints for long periods of time when you're young.

[JOHN DOE]

Those Nigerian PoW/stress positions are hilarious.

The parents taunt them as they do it

MAN SAID PRISONER OF WAR :lol:

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building a warrior right there with the military shit and excessive beating

but is that really a good thing?

hope he is still able to chill with his dad rather than being frightened of him

imo being scared to dissapoint ur parents far outweighs being beaten by them

[Guest Portuguese]

Beats was a good thing for me it helped me fear and respect my parents.(Aunts and Uncles)

1. Hand stand with feet on the wall if dropped the belt would come out

2. Pepper in my eyes

3. One uncle made me trade punches with him when I was 14

4. Clamped with the belt buckle only for ten minutes straight

5. Wash in cold water

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C/S about the Michael Kyle method that's the route I am taking

[Guest M12 Part 2]

Beats was a good thing for me it helped me fear and respect my parents.(Aunts and Uncles)

1. Hand stand with feet on the wall if dropped the belt would come out

2. Pepper in my eyes

3. One uncle made me trade punches with him when I was 14

4. Clamped with the belt buckle only for ten minutes straight

5. Wash in cold water

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C/S about the Michael Kyle method that's the route I am taking

your defo Angolan fam them hard body punishments.

can imagine one aff uncle saying " i will put hot peppeh in your eye!"

*with that face where their eyes open wide and they emphasise every word*

[Michel Kane]

Pepper in eyes.

Oh my, the flashbacks.

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Hand stand against the wall?

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[Guest Portuguese]

Beats was a good thing for me it helped me fear and respect my parents.(Aunts and Uncles)

1. Hand stand with feet on the wall if dropped the belt would come out

2. Pepper in my eyes

3. One uncle made me trade punches with him when I was 14

4. Clamped with the belt buckle only for ten minutes straight

5. Wash in cold water

/

C/S about the Michael Kyle method that's the route I am taking

your defo Angolan fam

Congolese

[Supermalt]

nah fuck pepe in the eyes, i was murked with various weapons but thats peak

was at aunts house, came in and saw my two 5 yr old cousins crying in the kitchen

naked kneeling down and holding baby carriers above there heads

my mum told her to allow it

i was bennin but its deep

[Guest Portuguese]

Beats was a good thing for me it helped me fear and respect my parents.(Aunts and Uncles)

1. Hand stand with feet on the wall if dropped the belt would come out

2. Pepper in my eyes

3. One uncle made me trade punches with him when I was 14

4. Clamped with the belt buckle only for ten minutes straight

5. Wash in cold water

/

C/S about the Michael Kyle method that's the route I am taking

your defo Angolan fam

Congolese

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Only Congolese received pepper in their eyes

[TALLWAH]

Pepper in eyes you know, thats some next level abuse.

[Guest haze-e]

Lol.

The only gripe i really had about the video was the swearing. Shouldn't be swearing around kids no matter how angry you are.

But oui, this the kind of beatings i got. Explantion > Beating > "Why are you crying? Should i give you something to cry for??" After ive just been fucking beaten.

[carpedeum]

i can agree with his form of parenting, and i dont have an issue with what he did to punish like in boot camp

i have a problem with the belting as i think smacking should be an instant type of reaction, not a pre meditated action

the child will get used to it. My dad used to smack us at times, but my mum rarely smacked, she would punish physically and in ways we feared far more than smacking.

the problem with smacking is that it introduces the child to violence, and plants that seed in them that will grow, and if other areas of parenting are lacking then that person will fall back on violence as the first resort, not thinking first

the biggest problem i have is him becoming an internet parent.no one asked him for his stats, nor do i care what steps he's taken to raise his child. When i meet that child on the street or as he grows up, thats when we'll know how effective he is as a parent.

no one apart from those directly around the child's life and development need to see or be aware of his parenting.

embarrassing children on the internet and himself is just foolish and im sick of seeing such video parents like they want me to reward them for being a disciplined parent.

raise your child well in your home, and the results will be seen in the outside world, without the need for no "likes" and page views.

[JDC]

don't like all that shit tbh

if you deserve a smack / slap then so be it, along with a verbal beasting (neither did me any harm)

but cutting the lil man's hair off and making him do some boot camp shit isnt on if you ask me

[Im Broke]

Pepper in the eyes is just abuse on a real, remind me of a Ghanaian friend who said when he misbehaved his mum use to put pepper in his bumcrack, them devilish punishments there.

[carpedeum]

Pepper in the eyes is just abuse on a real, remind me of a Ghanaian friend who said when he misbehaved his mum use to put pepper in his bumcrack, them devilish punishments there.

[Trim]

don't like all that shit tbh

if you deserve a smack / slap then so be it, along with a verbal beasting (neither did me any harm)

but cutting the lil man's hair off and making him do some boot camp shit isnt on if you ask me

c/s

[Soca Junkie]

Beats was a good thing for me it helped me fear and respect my parents.(Aunts and Uncles)

1. Hand stand with feet on the wall if dropped the belt would come out

2. Pepper in my eyes

3. One uncle made me trade punches with him when I was 14

4. Clamped with the belt buckle only for ten minutes straight

5. Wash in cold water

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C/S about the Michael Kyle method that's the route I am taking

your defo Angolan fam

Congolese

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Only Congolese received pepper in their eyes

Pepper in eyes/bum/lower regins is used in quite a lot of African countries.