Domestic Violence

[Thizz]

Gotta be thinking ahead though.

 

He clarts her then gets nicked potentially goes to jail.

 

Who win's here?

 

Ain't the man.

[Natty]

Lool I get it fully i wouldn't feel bad for the girl at all plus he only slapped her not punched her in the face which is restraint in itself but I'm not going to say its justified 

[JOHN DOE]

obv he loses in every way 

but as a human being i cannot fault him for backhanding her for such foolishness 

not everything we do , we do thinking about the future consequences 

we are only human at the end of the day 

[Thizz]

1 minute ago, JOHN DOE said:

obv he loses in every way 

but as a human being i cannot fault him for backhanding her for such foolishness 

not everything we do , we do thinking about the future consequences 

we are only human at the end of the day 

Agree that's why being able to control your emotions in every faucet of life put's you ahead of most.

[Incumbent]

54 minutes ago, Natty said:

looool how's it superhuman to not react to verbal insults from a chick u man sound hella emotional 

fucking hate donuts who drop that dumb emotional bullocks whenever this subject pops up

like coz you are a male you can't react emotionally to things said to you which moretime is purely designed/worded to trigger those very natural of human essence

 

 

[Thizz]

So is it dumb emotional bollocks or the very nature of human essence?

[Natty]

4 minutes ago, Incumbent said:

fucking hate donuts who drop that dumb emotional bullocks whenever this subject pops up

like coz you are a male you can't react emotionally to things said to you which moretime is purely designed/worded to trigger those very natural of human essence

 

 

thats what it comes down to tho innit you choose to let someones words move you and cause you to react you know when someones tryna trigger you. The very essence of what makes us human and not animals is self awareness and we have free will bro so i'm not tryna hear about the human essence 

[Incumbent]

23 minutes ago, Natty said:

He still weren't justified he's had his whole life to grow and make peace with the fact that his mum left him as fucked as that is imo if he was a teenager i would get it and shes fucked for saying that but i still can't co sign

so are u the type that will let a female cuss out your mum/dad/important person in your life while their getting in your face, space and you won't react to it coz you are a man and your emotions will be in check?

if so big up you

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I don't believe you tho

 

 

[TTK]

A lot of you man have mad serious anger issues.

Lol imagine your first port of call to a female throwing verbal abuse is throwing hands. Pathetic behaviour. 

[Natty]

9 minutes ago, Incumbent said:

so are u the type that will let a female cuss out your mum/dad/important person in your life while their getting in your face, space and you won't react to it coz you are a man and your emotions will be in check?

if so big up you

 

I don't believe you tho

 

 

Loool cussing my mum or dad what are we in secondary school you man sound like you still punch walls when you get angry ngl

Walk away or if its online log off 

[The Infamous]

4 minutes ago, Natty said:

Loool cussing my mum or dad what are we in secondary school you man sound like you still punch walls when you get angry ngl

Walk away or if its online log off 

Ahlie

 

Stanley ass jiggas battering women in a wife beater 

[Incumbent]

@TTK don't chat shit coz nobody has said they have or will bang a chick for saying blah blah to them

@Natty lol point i was making is everyone has triggers, mum or dad cusses may not trigger u but it will trigger most ppl especially if that important person has died etc, just coz you would not rise to it doesn't mean a next man won't, that's all i am saying

as for them being emotionally controlled by that, so what? everyone has that essence therefore chicks/guys shouldn't be walking around triggering knowing fully well ppl react differently

i believe all most of us are saying is chicks know what their doing and should not expect every man to walk away and not react violently

certain man will slap a bitch if lines are crossed (or not for dem man with issues)

 

[TTK]

Mate your in a topic called domestic violence...is that not implied? 

[Incumbent]

1 minute ago, TTK said:

Mate your in a topic called domestic abuse...is that not implied? 

no!

[TTK]

 Silly me for thinking that wasn't the reaction you was talking about. Carry on mate.

[Seydou]

Lol so she says something, you punch her up, what is your end goal?

Respect? An apology?

 

[TheOneGameBaller]

This whole thread can be summed up in under 3 minutes.

 

 

 

[Kuffir]

51 minutes ago, Seydou said:

Lol so she says something, you punch her up, what is your end goal?

Respect? An apology?

 

A guy says something, you punch him up, what is your end goal

It's the same energy in both these situations, only with a chick she's probably been saying something ten seconds longer on account of a man getting snuffed within the first utterances

[Seth Rollins]

It's been completely taken out of context here. We're going from one extreme to another.

More time ANYONE will walk away when someone insults them. You're talking like say some random girl or your girlfriend calls you a d*ckhead and you just box her. In John Doe's post I can see why she got clapped. Is it right, f**k no. Is it justifiable, f**k no. Do I see why she got boxed, 100%. No one is walking around angry saying "I dare someone to chat sh*t, even a girl man don't care".

My mate was called a dirty f**king n*gger in Liverpool and spat at. She got laid out. One bang. Completely wrong of him. But rage builds up and triggers you within a split second. The moment he connected he instantly regretted it and tried to apologise to her friend standing there gobsmacked I had to drag this man into a cab. I couldn't even get to him before she finished pronouncing the "er". I can almost guarantee as wrong as that is she will NEVER speak direct to someone like that again.

If none of you lot have triggers then I am over the moon for you. But don't let that fact cloud your judgement into thinking just because you don't that people's words can't send someone else over the edge. F**ked up situations and name calling scar people for life not just violence FFS and calling those people weak. You should be able to have dialogue without insults and understand even if you don't agree.

[Seydou]

1 hour ago, Kuffir said:

A guy says something, you punch him up, what is your end goal

It's the same energy in both these situations, only with a chick she's probably been saying something ten seconds longer on account of a man getting snuffed within the first utterances

?nice counter tbh.

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Lol at apologising after a skank calls me a nigger. She got laid out and rightly so.

Hopefully she's scared of that word now. But I doubt that taught her anything less though.

[VENOM]

10 hours ago, JOHN DOE said:

ill give you an example 

my friends mother abandoned him when he was 3 his ex obv knew this 

one argument occurred in which she said somethig along the lines of thats why your mum left you etc etc 

he backhanded her for those words

was he justified?

if i said that to anyoen (male or female) i would expect to be dealt with violently 

i wouldnt say that to anyone as i know what to expect, and i definitely wouldn't say it to anyone clearly physically superior to me 

 

 

I started reading this thinking I was gonna read something deep. of course that's wrong to say that, but like anything..once you justify violence in that manner, then there's no boundary tbh.

that's like saying because I cuss a white man's mum he deserves the right to be racist, or because one insults a policeman he deserves to be shot, 

words are words, I would have understood the Goli example of the woman sitting in her man's mum's drink or violence towards his mother. 

so by exhibiting violence towards your woman you are in essence trying to control what she can say? rather than have the argument and heal from it. .iNSULTS?? 

to "understand' why he clapped her doesn't mean he's excused in any way..he's immature emotionally and was probably with the wrong woman anyway. but slapping an ex imo means he would do it to his current if she said something "deeeeeeep"..

[jelly]

my cousins girlfriend punched him in the face outside a club be restrained her and he got arrested and charged 

she said he hit her to a crowd it would of looked like it because he got aggressive after she hit him 

 

[Afroman]

Craig david - Walking away

Can't get into an exchange with a woman that would aggravate me in any way shape or form

[Incumbent]

true story, happened 2 weeks ago but i've just found out about it today

it's my work mate, married for over 25 years, 2 kids

the husband found out his wife has been flirting and subsequently banging one don from a few roads down from his yard

they argue, shit gets heated, things were dashed & broken, they break up etc and things get nasty

3 days later they meet up to talk, clear the air and see how to move forward positively

somewhere between him showing proof of her cheating on his mobile coz she was still denying it and him telling her she's getting nothing from him she looses it and starts going nuts, trying to take the mobile off him, attacking him etc he doesn't hit her but jumps out of the car, she follows and continues the attack and thats when his switches, grabs arm and bends it then with the other hand grabs her neck and pushes her away

a dog walker breaks it up, he jumps in the whip and drives off

2 days later the wife texts him to come get his things, he comes to collect his things at the yard, she says sorry and some how they end up banging, he stays over and around 5am there's a knock on the door, he answers & it's the police who swiftly arrest him for assault, struggling with intent & gbh, she had reported him to the police saying he beat her up, struggled, bashed her head on the car and kick her

he gets interviewed, pictures of bruises were shown with statements painting a different picture of what had happened, he gets charged and was told unless he has a witness/cctv footage that confirms his version of events he won't be released, he will be remanded,

before being transferred to jail the husband instructs his solicitor to find the dog walker who saw most of what happened, lucky for him the witness had already on the same day called the non emergency number and told the police what had happened, where and quoted both their names that he heard during the fight & it filtered down to station where he was held & charged

anyway, 2 days in the local nick and being treated like shit from the feds and 3 days in jail he was finally released and all charges were dropped

lucky guy

 

 

[Grafter]

Very lucky

Props to the dog walker for that. What a good citizen

Some women are disgusting. A man i kno went through similar. Woman hittin him in his face while hes drivin, over something incredibly selfish and petty of her. Then he put his arm out to stop her , got her neck

Got arrested in front of the children. No charges thankfully but she had connived the entire thing in order to get something for herself. It was massive ordeal

Shattered the man